New Nephew Born

Fathan Zulhilmi Hannan
"Pria pelopor yang sopan dan bertingkah laku baik serta membawa berkah"

Born in Duren Tiga Cliniq. 24th January 2007, 13.05wib, my nephew born by caesar operation as I told you already.

Healthy thank God. May he become a sholeh man. amin

Caesar

Hmm on 19th January 2007, my sister is going to have caesar operation, she is going to deliver her baby.

Napa harus di caesar? karena mata dia minus 6, alias rabun jauh -6, napa harus dioperasi?karena pembuluh darah bisa pecah jika mengejan.

duh mana ibuku baru datang tgl 22 januari,soalnya gini, si dokter awalnya bilang tgl 19, tapi lalu mengundurkan jadwalnya, jd ibu juga mundur jadwal buat ngurusin bantuan gempa, ee sekarang maju lg jd tanggal 19 :D

temen2 doain ya.........
eh ada usul nama bayi cowo dr bahasa kawi or sansekerta?


update:
karena di RS Budi Asih kamar penuh, jadi jadwal mundur Jumat pekan depan. Adikku maunya hari Jumat soalnya. Keep praying.....

Land for Sale

"Bringing this post up"

Dijual tanah sawah, lingkungan masih asri dan sudah ada rumah disekitarnya
Lokasi Barat dari Ring Road Timur-Jaranan Bantul Yogya-sekitar 2km dari pasar Kotagede Yogyakarta-3km dari terminal Bus Giwangan-1km dr pasar Pleret, sekitar 5km dari bandara
Luas 1975m
Cocok bila akan dijadikan tanah kapling karena lebar.
Jika masih akan dijadikan sawah, akan ada yang bersedia mengolahnya.
Silakan hubungi saya japri alias secara pribadi ke email lla_via@yahoo.com

keterangan gambar:
panjang tanah dr pingir pohon keras (foreground), sampai di ujung sana di pohon2 pisang, pohon pisang terletak d tanah yang akan dijual.
lebar 2 petak sawah

Reconstruction of Yogyakarta

Like I said before, I was going home to Yogyakarta. there are so many new building, new resto or restaurant, new gas station, etc. Like this one I take, it's on quarter of Sentul, it was a restaurant, for people who ever live in Yogya, must know it.

postingan blm layak tayang, tp biarin deh drpd ga ke update heheeee, meanwhile, cek my flickr for new photos

Going home

Ahhh ga sabar nih nunggu hari ahad, di hari itu ku akan pergi ke Yogyakarta dengan misi tugas kantor menghadiri pembukaan training. Hari senin, 8 januari 2007 kantorku, JICA bekerja sama dengan Balai Besar Kulit, Karet dan Plastik dan Balai Besar Batik dan Kerajinan akan menyelenggarakan training pada tanggal 8 januari hingga 9 februari dengan total peserta 300 orang. Training ini khusus diperuntukkan bagi korban gempa 27 mei 2006.

Ga biasanya bos nyuruh ikut hadir di pembukaan training-training, dalam satu tahun minimal ada 5 training yang jadi "tanggung jawab" bos ku. Training di seluruh Indonesia pula. Mungkin karena ini TKT=Tempat Kejadian Training adalah daerahku sendiri dimana ku juga jadi korban gempa walau ga parah, artinya masih punya rumah- baru deh aku disuruh ikut hadir.

Ku cuma bisa menghabiskan waktu 2 hari 1 malam saja di rumah, hal ini karena peraturan kantor yaitu tanggal tiket tidak boleh berbeda antara bos dan sekretarisnya, bahkan harga tiket juga harus sama, tetapi kalau beda jam sih ga masalah.

Banyak misi pribadi yang dibawa ke Yogya, belanja kebutuhan calon ponakan, bawa barang2 alias makanan or lauk yang dipesen adikku antara lain rengginan dan rambutan hasil halaman rumah! Bahkan kalau aku pulang pagi hari dia malah mo nitip dibelikan bermacam bubur dari pasar sebelah rumah, walaaahhhh, untung ku pulang petang/malam hari. Terus nyari buku atau setidaknya memfotocopi kamus bahasa kawi karangan pak Purwadi, sang rektor ISBUJA karena stok buku sudah habis jadi ya terpaksa berburu ke perpus buat di fotocopi.

Kalo misiku sendiri sih paling beli buku NH Dini dan beberapa buku lain, kalau d Yogya kan lebih murah, ada diskon2 nya he hee. Trus beli sprei, beli baju batik, beli abon etc dan tentu sedikit oleh2. Habis dehh duit jatah perjalanan dinas. Tak apa lahh.

Ohya ... karena musibah Adam Air, beruntunglah ku akan naik Garuda, yah setidaknya merasa lebih aman, semoga perjalanan lancar dan selamat sampai di Jakarta kembali. Ibu ku lah terutama yang merasa lebih tenang karenanya.

Just wait for my report on newest conditions of Yogyakarta after the eartquake. C U

ASI=Breastfeeding Campaign

Saturday, Dec 16th 2006

Actually there are several available agenda:

1. Kompas Book Bazaar in Palmerah, just by Rp 10,000 we can get 5 books, its so tempting right?
   
2. Miracle of ASI Movement, its about breasfeeding campaign, no no I'mnot aiming the seminars, but i want to see the performer. my favorittes band, yup, MALIQ N D'ESSENTIALS. They are my main reason, my 2nd reason is, my siter is going to have a baby, so she need knowledge, and since she already 8months pregnant, she is "lazy" to go to places that tiring.
   
3. etc
   

So, because I am too tired (or spiritless) to go to Book Bazaar that will full of people who fight for those cheap books, so I decide to go occasion #2, other reason is the location is not far, I can walk for 15 minutes from my boarding house.

About 10.05am I arrived at the venue, whuaaaaa its loaded , I -and others people and also the committee, didn't expect that this occasion will be very full. It was full of baby, infants and pregnant mothers.

(duh karena dah terlalu lama mengendap jadi males nulisnya, gara2 koneksi internet ngadat nihhh *cari alasan, pake bhs indonesia aja deh lanjutannya ha haaa)

ok inti dari Kampanye ASI ini adalah:

1. Jelas ASI lebih baik dari susu sapi alias susu formula, karena walaupun protein dalam ASI itu lebih sedikit dari susu sapi tapi punya kandungan lipase yaitu hormon untuk mencerna lemak. Tentu di susu sapi tidak terkandung zat ini karena mereka para sapi tidak mengkonsumsi lemak kan? Beda ma anak manusia. CMIIW
2. Tentu tau kalo kolostrum atau susu ibu yang pertama keluar hingga sekitar 1 minggu setelah kelahiran mempunyai kandungan zat kekebalan tertinggi untuk bayi. KArena bayi perlu zat ini utnuk membangun sitem kekebalan dirinya buat masa kini dan masa depannya, artinya ketika dia bayi ataupun ketika dia sudah besar. Kolostrum
   
3. Setelah 4 atau 7 hari , ASI bukan bernama kolostrum lagi, tapi akan bernama susu transisi, kemudian setelah 14 hari akan menjadi ASI matang, tentu kandungannya berbeda. ASi matang terdiri dari foremilk dan hindmilk. Jadi pada saat disusukan awalnya adalah foremilk yang keluar, tapi setelah beberapa waktu ( 5 menit dari hasil penelusuran) foremilk akan habis dan berganti dengan hindmilk. Protein paling banyak ada di kolostrum, foremilk dan hindmilk punya kandungan protein sama. Kolostrum dan foremilk punya kandungan lemak yang sama dan meningkat pada hindmilk. Sedangkan laktosa/karbohidrat susu di hindmilk sama dengan foremilk namun lebih banyak dari kolostrum.
   
4. ASI punya efek pencahar,jadi wajar ketika setelah minum ASi, bayi jadi buang air besar.
5. Seorang ibu terutama ibu baru atau yang baru mempunya anak pertama, sangat membutuhkan dukungan dari orang lain terutama suami untuk bisa memberikan ASI dengan baik. Contoh extrim adalah contoh dari seorang ASI Ambassador ketika dia melahirkan anak kembar 3, maka seakan tugas dia hanya menyusui, bagaimanaa tidak, ketika satu bayi belum selesai menyusu, yang lain sudah menanti, bahkan dia harus mencatat agar tidak terjadi pengulangan pemberian ASI pada satu bayi atau justru bayi yang terlewat diberi ASI. Jadi boro-boro ngurusi rumah tangga, ngurus diri sendiri aja sudah capek.

Info lain tentang ASI bisa dibaca disini or here .

Saatnya hiburan cihuiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii Its Maliq time!!!

Indah dan Angga

Jawa, Widi dan Ifa

Ahh sudah lupa apa saja lagu yang dinyanyikan. Sampai beberapa lagu awal, ku masih duduk manis di kursi, soalnya baru ada pembagian pizza dan air mineral, namanya pembagian tuh gratis nih, jadi kan rugi klo pindah kursi dan ga dapet he he.

Baru deh lagu keberapa maju duduk di undakan tempat duduk, duduk di samping 3 cewe fans maliq juga, sebelumnya pernah ketemu ma mereka juga pas liat maliq dulu di gedung yang sama.

Namanya juga acara ibu2 tentu banyak anak2 yang ikut datang, mereka pengeni kut nyanyi juga tapi karena tidak tahu liriknya, dibisikin dulu ma Indah he hee, brave kids....

Acara selesai.....pulang.....

Terbanggggggg

ahh harapan, sesuatu yang selama ini masih ku punya
tapi ternyata
harapan itu telah terbang,it's gone I guess
terbang di atasku dan melewatiku...

berarti saatnya menemukan harapan baru.....
yuhuuuu......

ahh tapi kayaknya ku harus balik ke supermarket (ku baru saja belanja dikit)ku harus beli es krim nih, klo coklat masih ada d kamar, trus beli gorengan......

22 December

In Indonesia, we commemorate today as Mother Day, but since 2 years ago, this date isn't a lovely date for a celebration.

Dec 22nd 2004 at dawn, my grandma -younger sister of the mother of my mother or younger sister of my "real" grandma- past away. She got heart stroke that she already had for several years.

She was the closest grandma I had, because my "real" grandma stay in Jakarta while I stay in Yogyakarta. She and her family usually take me for traveling, short and long distance one. She also help me with school's cost.

Since she passed away and the earthquake in May 27th 2006, nobody lives in her house, some of the house is broke. But the main building is just fine since it was newly renovated so it wasn't an old building anymore that has high risk to earthquake.

Ahh too many memories. May she rest in peace. May Allah erase all her sins. Amin

a wedding

Monday, Dec 17th 2006

8.00am I left my room, go to Senen Bus station, that is the meeting point with my friends to go to Ciledug, to Dani's wedding. On 9.15 our bus start to move.
On 10.30am we arrive at the venue, we met several friends n our way, Dilla, musashi, Kudo, Koer, this is their nick names.
Then shake the wedding hands, here is the pic:

The bride & bridegroom

We wait for several friends who will come. It was so damn hot! No ice cream, no flavoured drinks, so we just eat fruits and pudding more and more, he he sorry dorry Dani.

Since it is too long to wait all of our friends to show up, we decide that we will go home on 1.30pm. So, I apologize to bluedrag and shety who arrive when we are about leaving, sorry to Danny that we cannot meet, why don't u sms me when u arrive. sorry to Black Java too, we can't wait that long.

Eragon Movie review!

On our way back home, I decide to get off from the bus on Semanggi with Arie, then we went to Plaza Semanggi to watch movie, Eragon! check the comments and reviews of people here, in my eyes, well because I didn't read the books, I guess it was pretty fine, but who has read the books might get dissapointed because there are so many details that eliminated from the movie.

Before we watch movie, we went to gramedia, I met my friends in my previous company, they have a booth there. Then Arie try to find the Dan Brown's Angels & Demons Illustrated but it hasn't release or arrive in Indonesia yet they said. Then he find some otherbooks, he he I forgot the tittle and the authors, sorry, but he was so damn happy to find it.

I buy a VCD, a yoga for Pregnancy, actually I look for VCD for pregnancy exercise , but there is only YOGA. This is for my little sister.

On 7.30pm I arrive at my room, since this is Monday, I switch on my TV and watch the JAK-TV, a show, a Project Runway. Its a reality show about designer who competing. I like this show. I sthere anybody who like this show too? Who will be the winner? I think it will be Kara Saun or at least Jay. they have strong charactere in designing, strong but unique. Well that is my personel opinion, that doesn't own much knowledge in designing or fashion.

Reduce Reuse Recycle I: Plastic

This will be the 1st edition of a series post about saving our planet.

Come on we must save our planet, in this case from garbage.

Few months ago, in Bandung there are massive garbage "ignored" for weeks that create unclean environment. You can read it here and here

We don't want it happen to our neighbourhood right? So I guess we should do something about it.

Hmm plastic must have big part of those garbage, lets reduce the using. My way to reduce is when I shop, always try not to ask for plastik and tas kresek, always prepare a bag to carry it. This wil reduce a lot. Especially for those who shops a lot, like me who shops for food everyday in food stall. At least I will reduce one plastic bag everyday if I do that always.
For moms who shop at market can also use this way, always bring other bag to put things they buy.

Hmmm off course sometime we cannot avoid of taking plastic bag. So, if you bring plastic bag home, sort it to 2 categories, the almost dirty and the clean one. We can use the almost dirty for bag for garbage or others. For the clean one, we can reuse it, use to shop again, to wrap things etc. And we can also give is to some shop.

My aunt usually collect plastic bag in her house and give it to my other aunt who run a small shop for daily supplies. So did my mom, she give it to some sellers in market near my house. And me, I give it to the owner of my boarding house, they run a fruit kiosk. We will help them for sure. And at the same time we help our planet with just a little effort :D

BOrEd!!!

UGhh I'm bored....bored of eating usual menus. I guess some of u feel the same too, especially when u are not live in your home, maybe u stay at a boarding house or dormitory, or others.
Usually, I cook for rice in my Rice Cooker at my boarding house, then I buy other things to complete such as tofu, tempe, many kind of fish, egg, vegetables. This is the cheapest way. But I always get bored of those, so I have some ways to overcome the problems:

1. Buy from different food stall. BY this method we will have different kind of food or even if it is same menu, we will get different taste.
2. Sometime buy rice too. This is cost more money than if I cook my own rice. For example, 1 liter of raw rice will last for 1 week, it cost less than 5,000IDR. But if we buy rice, every pack is 1,000IDR sometime 2,000IDR. So in 1 day i will cost 3,000 in one week will cost 21,000, so u see the cost difference?
3. Buy something unusual, buy nasi uduk, Bubur ayam, buy grilled chicken, gado-gado, or sometime just eat instant noodle.


Ok, we all sometime bored in working, in life, with our love partner :D and so on. Sometime I get bored going to office, this is my several way to overcome:

1. Wear different type of cloths, of we usually wear trouser than wear skirt, if u are man, don't wear knit or skirt he he, try wear different material of trouser. If u wear uniform to office, try to put accessories , wear different footwear
2. use different bag he he, it works for me....
3. Sing! put on your earphone or headphone and sing along, but be carefull, u might will disturb your friends or even your boss he he

Silakan berbagi tips agar tidak bosen atau stress.

BTW, I'm thinking of upgrading my account to blogger beta, so if somebody find any difficulities to give comment or anything, or need to have a google account and need invitation, just let me know.
terjemahan hi hi: Jadi kalo ada kesulitan atau pengen punya account google juga, silakan kontak saya yahhh, selama saya masihpunya jatah, saya invite deh

Footwear that define you

Tadi pagi berangkat dengan sepatu teplek (sepatu tanpa hak atau hak cuma 2cm saja) dan perasaan yang ditimbulkan berbeda dengan sehari-hari ketika aku hanya memakai sandal saja untuk berangkat k kantor. FYI, ku ke kantor cuma jalan kaki 10menit dan setelah berada d kantor dan ada bos saja ku pakai sepatu, selebihnya ya pakai sandal.
Perasaan yang berbeda rasanya yaitu lebih formal, lebih terasa kalo mo ngantor -instead of perasaan jalan2 aja-

Ketika kita memakai pakaian yang sama persis tetapi memakai jenis alas kaki yang berbeda, hal itu akan merubah image, rasa percaya diri dan merubah nuansa keseluruhan dandanan kita. Misal pakai celana jeans, pake kaos, beralas sendal jepit akan beda halnya dengan celana jeans dan kaos yang sama tetapi memakai high heels atau bahkan stiletto atau "cuma" sneaker!

Hal yang sama juga terjadi pada pria lho, coba pake celana jeans ma kemeja, lalu pakai sneaker atau sendal kulit atau sendal jepit yang beda kiri dan kanan nya atau ganti dengan sendal cewe (he he ga dink ini diluar kelaziman, jelas akan timbul efek yang beda)!

Entah ini terjadi "semata-mata" karena kita mementingkan penampilan atau karena hal lain. Coba misalnya pengemis melakukan "percobaan" ini, dia pakai baju yang biasa dia pakai, tetapi pake sepatu selayaknya sepatu kerja kantoran, perasaan mereka tentu beda kan?

Ok apapun alasannya dan contohnya, kita ambil sisi positifnya, kita bisa merubah image dan suasana dandanan kita hanya dengan mengubah satu elemen saja yaitu ALAS KAKI! Lebih mudah (dan murah) kan daripada punya banyak baju? Setuju ga? Besok sepakat kita pakai alas kaki yang beda ya ke kantor or kampus?

My Day

Last Saturday...was my birthday.
Thank you buat yang dah kasih selamat, ada mas dwi, ada denny, mas eko, nindya, mei, nia, eh ada mas dymas yang ngucapin sblm tanggal biar ga kelupaan katanya, ada arie, mas cokro, arum, bluedrag, aduhh bnyk lagi yang ngucapin, silakan cek disini yah. And off course my sister and mom. KaLo ada yang ketinggalan kesebut maap yah.

Juga makasih buat rekan2 d kantor, thesa, emma, arie

My wish in my new age are: can make my family, my friend, my surround and MYSELF happier. amin. wish me luck guys...

Rest of the day.....

Not much activity in the morning, just sleeping coz it was a holiday. On 9.30 I went to ATM to pick some cash and reload my cell phone, and to kiosk to reload the other, then heading to market, buy rice, snacks and veil he he. Then back to my room, watch Oprah show and other show.
After Ashar, I left room to go to meet my friend, we will go to 50% off Books Bazaar on Hall A Depdiknas Building on Jl Jend Sudirman.

KALAP!!!

Arriving there wowwww start to visit the booth one by one. On the 2nd booth I find books by NH Dini, old books. On the next several booth, I find ANimals Ensiklopedi, at the beginning, its 50,000IDR, but then reduce to 40,000IDR, if it is in 30,000IDR i will buy, but no more bidding, stop there huaaaa. In the same booth there is good books of folks tale and fairy tale, each 10,000IDR, I want to buy it, but search for other books first.
In the next booth, I buy books for Naming the baby, for my sister who is expecting a baby -so far, the prediction said it is a baby boy-. Then walks.....there is a booth for games, especially for kids, its gorgeous, but I skip it, I only take a short look, coz focus to the books, not toys for my nieces!

In some next booth, there is a Sherlock Holmes books with illustration!waaaa its 1.25K alias Rp 125,000 huaaaaa pengennnn. I even don't have guts to look at the books in that booth coz I know they will be too awesome!

Move, I stop at the Jurnal Perempuan booth. Talk to the booth guide about my late friend, mbak budi siswanti, when I talk about her, they still seem so sad :((

Move, here is the fave booth, Utama store, they have up to 70% disc! I buy 3 three books for my nieces about puzzle, a comic: Road to Eldorado, a book from NH Dini again, Tirai Menurun, then a book about being a success secretary, book for my sister again, Dont Sweat Guide for Moms. Whuaaaa....I went crazy here!

Move, I find Tuan Konsul, a short story from NH Dini again just by 5,000IDR.
Ok had to stop the quest, my friend has other agenda.....

I leave with 11 books, and I guess i will back today or tomorrow to there, want to come with me? and buy me more books as my present? *wink wink


BTW: happy birthhday for my friends...buat Ida, buat temen2 SMA (yang mungkin baca ini entah kapan)ada hoho nugroho, een fudlana. dan buat novita-novita lain di luar sana he he. eh iya, katanya Pasha Ungu juga ultah,trus ada revalina juga, kyknya nicholas saputra jg deh hihiiii

yeng puyeng

maap yah buat yang mengharapkan blog ini di update, sebenernya banyak hal yang bisa ditulis, tapi ternyata ya banyak hal yang membuat cerita2 itu tidak bisa tersaji disini.

1. huaaah koneksi internet akhir2 ini bikin puyeng, idup mati mulu, chat jadi susah, buka sites juga susah
2. dalam hal ini, cerita tentang "dia" ga bisa ditulis disini, cukup lewat japri aja, dan sori nih Mei klo lagi ga bisa ber japri-ria
3. la saya ini sedang di-puyeng-kan dengan suatu hal yang urgent, jadi otaknya ga bisa buat posting gitu
4. kadang2 kerjaan "aga" banyak jd prioritas adalah chat dan dan dan apa ya? :D chat doank berarti yah? yaitu tadi chat tentang masalah yang urgent itu

Ya doakan saja semoga masalah ini bisa diatasi dan berjalan dengan lancar sehingga membuat hati saya tenang dan senang, maka saya kan membaginya dengan Anda-anda. Amin

BTW, dateng yukkk ke acara bazar buku di Aula Depdiknas JL Jend Sudirman Jakarta, tanggal 24 (eh 24 apa 25 ya?) November-3 Desember 2006, kadang nemu buku2 ajaib yang biasanya tidak kita temui lo....

Huaaa bocor kah?

Hari Rabu, ketika datang, ruangan kantor aga gelap, beberapa lampu tidak menyala, dan ketika masuk ruanganku waaa dikejutkan dengan aqua galon di ruanganku berkurang sangat banyak dari kemarin, mulai curiga ma pekerja konstruksi d kantor *masyaallah suudzon* ketika dispenser ku hidupkan tidak menyala dan begitu juga dengan komputer. Alamat terjadi sesuatu dan ternyata katanya sedang ada yang korslet.

Ketika ku cek colokan listrik di bawah huaaa lantai basahhh, disinyalir dari Aqua. Kontak Aqua lapor dispencer nya bocor, karena ini cuma sewa jadi biar bisa diganti gitu.
Syukur listrik menyala dan bukan disebabkkan bocornya dispenser itu kata tehnisinya. Phfiuhhh bisa ngenet lagi deh ha haaaa.

Ketika bos datang langsung ku laporkan keadaan yang ada. Menit demi menit berlalu, ternyata bocor semakin deras, huaduh kalang kabut, ini salah satu moment terberat dimana ku harus segera mengambil keputusan *halahh. Jadilah ku ambil gitar dan mulai ku mainkan, lagu lama yang biasa kita nyanyikan, wee bukan, segera ku ambil galon bersih dr pantry, ambil teko juga, ku tuanglah aqua di dispenser ke galon kosong tadi, ku ambil pel juga -kebayang ga pake sepatu hak tapi bawa pel? hi hii.
Ok sementara masalah beres pfiuhhhh.....

Terpaksa deh hari itu ga ada air panas dan air dingin. Mana pas kerjaan banyak, fax sana fax sini, pake salah tujuan, gagal terima huaduhhh

*****
Hari ini, Kamis, sempat terbersit harapan ketika melihat truk aqua d lantai dasar, berharap dia mengantar stok aqua galon k ruanganku. Ketika bos datang dia bilang kalo di rumah dia (*apartemen kali maksudnya)pernah terjadi hal yang sama dan dikarenakan GALON YANG BOCOR jadi bukan dispensernya, jadilah ku pasang lagi galon lain, dan sampai saat ini baik-baik saja. Horeeee problem solved.

Ohya, td pagi sempet tidak semangat karena temanku nun jauh disana ga masuk kantor dari kemarin karena sakit, moga Senin dah sehat lagi dan mewarnai hari-hariku dengan chatting bersamanya *halahhh

Salah satu yang bikin semangat adalah mencoba telpon via internet, mencoba pakai Gtalk alias google talk. Setelah ku matikan firewaal koneksi internet namun masih ada firewall dari norton ku, diriku bisa bercakap dengan robby di bogor walau ada lag alias delay dan kadang terputus-putusyah lumayan lahhh. Ketika kita coba dengan Yahoo messenger ternayta belum bisa, sudah utak utik sana-sini belum bisa juga..yah lain kali di coba lagi.

Terus iseng-iseng coba download skype lagi. Dulu sih pernah download tapi karena file yang cukup besar 12 MB ga pernah sukses downloadnya. dan ajaib tadi bisa dengan sukses download dan instal. horeee ready to talk dehhh walaupun belum di test hihi hi


update

moral of the story nya kelupaan, jadi ingat jangan sampai pasang galon yang bocor, retak, pokoknya yang rusak deh, walaupun retak itu dah di tempel selotip -like I already did before, ga ngefek hi hiii
Napa yah klo galonnya retak dikiiit aja dan bisa mengalirkan udara k dalamnya, kok jadi bocor allias keluar air dr dispenser dan bukannya dari galonnya! Ada yang tau ga?

Doa Seorang Akhwat

Taken from pyuriko

Doa seorang akhwat

Tuhanku...
Aku berdo'a untuk seorang pria yang akan menjadi bagian dari hidupku
Seseorang yang sungguh mencintaiMu lebih dari segala sesuatu
Seorang pria yang akan meletakkanku pada posisi kedua di hatinya setelah Engkau
Seorang pria yang hidup bukan untuk dirinya sendiri tetapi untukMu

Wajah tampan dan daya tarik fisik tidaklah penting
Yang penting adalah sebuah hati yang sungguh mencintai dan dekat dengan Engkau
dan berusaha menjadikan sifat-sifatMu ada pada dirinya
Dan ia haruslah mengetahui bagi siapa dan untuk apa ia hidup sehingga hidupnya tidaklah sia-sia

Seseorang yang memiliki hati yang bijak tidak hanya otak yang cerdas
Seorang pria yang tidak hanya mencintaiku tapi juga menghormatiku
Seorang pria yang tidak hanya memujaku tetapi juga dapat menasihatiku ketika
aku berbuat salah

Seseorang yang mencintaiku bukan karena kecantikanku tapi karena hatiku
Seorang pria yang dapat menjadi sahabat terbaikku dalam setiap waktu dan situasi
Seseorang yang dapat membuatku merasa sebagai seorang wanita ketika aku di sisinya

Tuhanku...
Aku tidak meminta seseorang yang sempurna namun aku meminta seseorang yang
tidak sempurna, sehingga aku dapat membuatnya sempurna di mataMu
Seorang pria yang membutuhkan dukunganku sebagai peneguhnya
Seorang pria yang membutuhkan doaku untuk kehidupannya
Seseorang yang membutuhkan senyumku untuk mengatasi kesedihannya
Seseorang yang membutuhkan diriku untuk membuat hidupnya menjadi sempurna

Tuhanku...
Aku juga meminta,
Buatlah aku menjadi wanita yang dapat membuatnya bangga
Berikan aku hati yang sungguh mencintaiMu sehingga aku dapat mencintainya
dengan sekedar cintaku

Berikanlah sifat yang lembut sehingga kecantikanku datang dariMu
Berikanlah aku tangan sehingga aku selalu mampu berdoa untuknya
Berikanlah aku penglihatan sehingga aku dapat melihat banyak hal baik dan bukan hal buruk dalam dirinya
Berikanlah aku lisan yang penuh dengan kata-kata bijaksana, mampu memberikan semangat serta mendukungnya setiap saat dan tersenyum untuk dirinya setiap pagi

Dan bilamana akhirnya kami akan bertemu, aku berharap kami berdua dapat
mengatakan:
"Betapa Maha Besarnya Engkau karena telah memberikan kepadaku pasangan yang dapat membuat hidupku menjadi sempurna."

Aku mengetahui bahwa Engkau ingin kami bertemu pada waktu yang tepat
Dan Engkau akan membuat segala sesuatunya indah pada waktu yang telah Engkau
tentukan

Amin...

Rasulullah bersabda: "Bukan termasuk golonganku orang-orang yang merasa khawatir akan terkungkung hidupnya karena menikah kemudian ia tidak menikah." (HR. Thabrani). "

Apa yang menghimpit saudara kita sehingga MEREKA SANGGUP MENETESKAN
AIR MATA. Awalnya adalah KARENA MEREKA MENUNDA APA YANG HARUS DISEGERAKAN,
MEMPERSULIT APA YANG SEHARUSNYA DIMUDAHKAN. Padahal Rasululloh berpesan:
"Wahai Ali, ada TIGA PERKARA JANGAN DITUNDA-TUNDA, apabila SHOLAT TELAH TIBA WAKTUNYA, JENAZAH APABILA TELAH SIAP PENGUBURANNYA, dan PEREMPUAN APABILA TELAH DATANG LAKI-LAKI YANG SEPADAN MEMINANGNYA." (HR Ahmad) "

-- M. Fauzil Adhim


Amin amin ya robbal 'alamin

Shopping: it feels good

"Belanja itu enak yah" that's my friend said when we were in the mall. It was three of us, I accompany my friend came from Bontang Kalimantan to find "oleh-oleh" and few things that his family and friends need from Jakarta.
Previously, the day before, he already went to Sawah Besar to find components for his car and today we still have plenty of shopping list. After we enter the mall, I bought a strap tie for my camera, so I can easily hang it in my neck.

First we seek for the track of "Hot Wheel" games, looking aroud and no stores sells it, finally we try Matahari then we find it, various of kind and price of the track. While he look the right one, I look for toys for my niece who will have her 2nd birthday next Nov 16th. Then I find a perfect toy, its shape is helicopter but has holes in its body then we should put the right shape of holes with blocks of its shape, such as heart shape, round, square.

Next: we eat, I forget the name of the restaurant, its in 5th floor of Plasa Blok M I guess, food with taste of Mexican, when we sat there is a man, middle up age sit with a lady, we sit next to him and he was so polite. While we confuse what food we should choose, he gaves some suggest. I order Seafood fried rice, my friend order Kungpaw Chicken and Chicken something I forgot the name. Both are delicious, my order as usual came the latest, it was delicious too. Then we realized that the man is the manager or something of the restaurant. :D

Then we went to CD shop, buy some DVD his daughter wants, next destination is the camera shop, buy a 512MB of SD memory and a soft case for his camera.

Next, I want to buy something to put my phone cell on my desk ion the office, but we can only find one good choice, but it was too cute coz it is a doll, I decide not to buy it. My friend buy a ball doll for her daughter. Its cheaper she said compare to mall near her house.
Before when we reach the ground floor, I nod an Elizabeth store, my friend want to take a look, while she take a look, I randomly look at the collection, and I find a small bag or a purse for formal or for a party, then I decided to buy it, or actually I decide and my friend buy it for me he hee.

Next: buy a tent, his friend want to buy for his kid. We decide to seek in Melawai Plaza, but we cannot find it. I ask my uncle and he said it located in Cibubur. As my plan I was going to buy a trouser for works, and while we seek the tent I saw trouser, then I just buy it, cheap just 35.ooo IDR I hope it is a good stuff.

Because we cannot find it then we decide to buy Lapis Legit in Jl Haji Nawi. My friends cancel his appoinment with his relatives to go to Atrium Senen to find component for cars that his friend want, we got lack of time.

On the way to Jl Haji Nawi, we cross the Cipete Market then I realized that this market sell component for cars and motors too, then we went to this market and buy all we need, pfiuuhh. Then we take bajaj to Jl Haji Nawi cause it is not far. Finally we arrive at the Lapis legit store, I forgot the name again :D he bought one piece, another pfiuhhh then.

So there is only one thing he hasn't get, THE TENT! he called his other relatives that lives around Pasar Rebo, a little bit near Cibubur, and he was at home. We directly go to Pasar Rebo-Jalan Baru. Arriving there, my duty is complete, I'm going home.........

What a busy and tiring day, he bought so many things in Jakarta coz in Bontang everything is expensive and sometimes not avaible.....

update

So this weekend I shop few things, here is the list:
1. Strap tie
2. A party bag
3. A trouser
4. A jacket
5. A phone cell stand
6. Daily Supplies

I think I am not an impulsive shopper, who shop for pleasure only but doesn't need the things they buy or "lapar mata" yang cuma belanja karena pengen saja. I always plan what will I buy, at least big things, if I went to a supermarket for supplies, sometimes I will buy things that is not in my list he he....but so far it hasn't become a problem.

So, are you an impulsive shopper?

My weekend

Sunday: Me and my friends in Kapanlagi.com held meeting regarding to This Lunar month-Syawal. Even this is an islamic moment, but my friends who are not muslim can attend it too. Coz one of my friend still injured from accident happen few months ago. She cannot easyly and freely walking to places, in fact the only place she know is hospital and her home, then we go visit her in her house. In Bekasi.

At 9am I arrived in Atrium Senen then I sit near the road, then I saw Arie walking down the busway bridge but instead of walking to me, he walk to the other side of the road, then I realized that his aim is the food stall, me, who hasn't have breakfast then sms him, ask him to wait, but just in time when I was going to accros the road, my other friend, ade, came with his motorcycle, so I had to wait for him to park his motor. Then my friend, Ria came, we wait for Ade a little while, after he arrive, me and Ria went for a breakfast.
At first I want chicken porridge but the stall is full, and there is no other porridge stall and i have no intention to eat rice, so I choose green nut and black sticky rice porridge (bubur kacangijo maksudnyah).
Finish eating we went to atrium again, wait for our other friend,nindya. While we waiting, we buy for snacks and some "oleh-oleh". At first, I want a potluck party, so everybody who come should bring something, but I think it wont work.

Bla bla bla, here we are arrive at MM=Mall Metropolitan of Bekasi, we wait for other friends at dunkin donuts, coz it easy to find. After chilled for a while and the team is all agathered then we move to Lovely's house. After confuse about the trasportation, finally we get the 12B mikrolet.
Nothing special agenda, so we just talked and laugh :D until its time to go home.

This board has something special, its contents english lesson, but the example sometimes was wrong and the content is funny ;))

So long Di, hope u get well and back to work soon :-*

complete photos find in my flickr

Today

November 2nd,
Happy birthday Romy, I know that u dont want to make today is special, just usual like another day, I dont want to argue this time, just wishing u a happy life and may Allah swt loves u more and more. Amin

On this date too, few days ago, a baby girls was born, after a tough struggle of her mother to carry her. A baby girl named Atika Purbarani. She called my mother "Mama" even she is not her mother, my mother is her aunt, her mother and my father is brother and sister.

When she grow up, my mother usually take her to shop for supplies for my store and always ask for an ice cream.

Few years later, she got sick, deman berdarah dengue then she couldn' bear anymore, and she passed away ......my little cousin passed away in the dawn......:((
if she still alive, she would began her college study now.

May u rest in peace Tika. Amin

Eid Mubarak

Eid Mubarak to all my friends,
met hari raya idul fitri semuanya....
maafkan diriku jika ada kesalahan.

So many stories happen during the holiday, happy things, sad things to the saddest. I am not sure I can write them all down right now, consider to my lazyness and coz not focus to write ha ha ha.

Wait for it
*hehe today too many things i had to do instead of write in my blog, so busy that i even cannot have a chance to play a single game!!!